There’s a ‘Just So Story’ about how the rhino got such folded, wrinkly skin.
Rhino is a grumpy creature with tight grey skin who steals a man’s cake and eats it all. One day, rhino goes for a swim in the sea. Rhino’s skin is left folded on the shore. The man, in revenge for the cake theft, rubs crumbs into rhino’s skin: all over.
Rhino gets out, slips the skin back on, and feels an itch. It’s unbearable. Rhino runs to a nearby tree. The bark rubs up and down on rhino’s skin making it rumple and fold up.
This is how rhinos got folded, wrinkly skin (and why they are always in a bad mood).
Why am I telling you this story? Because this is what pronouns feel like to me. Society keeps rubbing them in: all over.
But why should I get my gender all rucked up round my shoulders? Maybe it could give me thicker skin eventually, but really I’d rather just stay out in the sea.
I did the drawing on this video in March. I’m still proud of the video, and domestic violence services are still in crisis, so I wanted to share.
Really proud to have been part of the Movement Snapshots project with AWID – gorgeous selection of illustrations on their website – https://www.awid.org/node/6623
‘What does solidarity mean to your organisation?’
‘What demands do you organise around?’
I’m super proud to say I spent the last few months of 2016 focused on making the first ever Sisters Uncut colouring book. You can get hold of a PDF on the website, or get them in London bookshops such as Freedom, Gay’s the Word, Housmans and the ICA bookshop.
Sneak peak of content by me:
Really. I understand the need for people to feel safe in public toilets. I do. But they are a place where I am made to feel like my body and my presentation are inadequate. I know that pretty much all women are made to feel like that by society pretty much all the time, but it’s not, for the most part, in terms of whether or not you’re actually a woman at all. And as a cis woman I know I have a whole bunch of privileges in spite of being misgendered all the time. But I wanted to express that it makes me angrysad.